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Emotional Freedom Techniques help shift blocked energies and return your body’s energy system to balance, influencing your health, emotions and state of mind.

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Human Beings have a physical body and an energy body. In Pranic Healing, we are working with the energy body, composed of chakras, meridians and various layers of the aura where the emotional and mental systems are located. 

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About Tamara Low

My name is Tamara. I am an Empath; a Highly Sensitive Person. I feel everything deeply, as I am sure you do too!?

Coming to learn, accept and understand the gifts of being an Empath/Highly Sensitive Soul, can be a bumpy, difficult journey. It has taken a long time for me to accept, embrace, and understand this trait. For most of my life, I have viewed it as a weakness, a hindrance, and a curse; something that I would have gladly given away (or traded) if  I could have. Maybe this is where you are at right now? And that is perfectly ok.

I am incredibly deeply passionate about how profoundly Emotional Freedom Techniques and Pranic Healing can assist us in healing, processing and integrating our unique struggles, challenges, emotional pain, physical pain, fear, blocks, etc. so that we may find and discover healing, integration, new understandings, and new ways of being. I am extremely passionate about us all living lives that are fully aligned with TRUE us!! 

 I celebrate and support Empaths, Energetically and Highly Sensitive Souls on their unique journey. I honour to its core, the much-needed value, gifts and contributions that Empaths and HSP’s make to humanity and the planet!! Freedom Techniques (EFT or “Tapping”) and Pranic Healing have been an integral part of my healing and awareness journey for so many years!! I am sooooo excited to share them with you!!

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Are you curious if you are an Empath or Highly Sensitive Person?

 Are You An Empath? By Dr. Judith Orloff

Wondering if You Are an Empath? By Michael R. Smith, Ph.D.

What Type of Empath are You? By Michael R. Smith, Ph.D.

Are You Highly Sensitive? By Dr. Elaine Aron

Accredited E.F.T. Practitioner and Pranic Healer

The Mission

"Clearing the blocks and disruptions that get in the way of our TRUE selves, and our truest and deepest expression."

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Emotional Freedom Techniques & Pranic Healing Can Assist With:

  • Codependency [Self-Love Deficit Disorder].
  • Feelings From Narcissistic Abuse.
  • Programmed Beliefs that Validate Abuse, Control, Mistreatment, Bullying, Manipulation and Being Taken Advantage of.
  • Accepting your Empathic or HSP Trait(s) Instead of Feeling Flawed, Shameful, Different, or That There is Something Deeply Wrong With you.
  • Processing Emotional Pain.
  • The Feelings Associated with Anxious Thoughts.
  • Fear, Worry and Uncertainty.
  • Addressing Generational Patterns.
  • Feelings of Sadness, Frustration, Anger and Despair.
  • Clearing Energy Blocks.
  • Regulating Our Nervous System.
  • Low Self- Esteem. Helps Release Toxic Shame and Foster Self-love and Self-worth.
  • Feelings From Self- Hatred and Self-Abuse.
  • Releasing Blocks, Limitations and Sabotaging Beliefs.
  • Develop Personal and Emotional Boundaries and Inner Strength/Power.
  • Feelings from Being Unloved, Neglected, Rejected, and Abused by a Parent or Caregiver.
  • Healing from Leaky Aura Syndrome and Brain Fog.
  • Parenting Challenges as an Empath/Highly Sensitive Person and/or the Challenges of Having a Highly Sensitive Child.
  • Mental Clarity and Focus
  • Self Discovery and Self Awareness; Connecting with our TRUE selves.
  • Plus SO much more....

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After you’ve booked your online appointment with Acuity, you will receive a confirmation email with the date, time and a link to a video conference.  Please save this link and click it when it’s the scheduled time.  The video conference software is called Zoom.  Please download it for free @ www.zoom.us before our appointment.  If you prefer to use Skype, please let me know in advance, as well as your user name on Skype. If you have any questions, you can email me at [email protected]com or call 236-600-1505.

After you have successfully scheduled your in-person appointment using Acuity, you will receive a confirmation email that contains all the information you will need to know.  In-person appointments are available for people who can easily commute to Vernon B.C.

If this is your first time, please select either the EFT or PH “Initial Consultation”.  This appointment is 1-hour and 15-minutes.  During the booking process with Acuity you will be able to fill out a standard intake form.  This only needs to be filled out once for your first appointment.

Yes, you have the option of booking a free 15-min phone session with me.  Using Acuity below, please select “Free Phone Session” and select your next available time.  Looking forward to it!

You can pay with Credit card (Stripe), PayPal, and e- transfer. For credit card and PayPal you will be asked to pay during the booking process with Acuity. There is a “pay later” option that you can select if you prefer e- transfer or cash.  Please send e-transfers to [email protected]com and use the password “empath”.

Yes you can choose one of the 4-session package options using Acuity.  You will only schedule the first session during the inital checkout process, but will receive a coupon code that you can use to redeem your 2nd, 3rd, and 4th appointments.  You will only need to pay once at the beginning or can select “pay later” if you prefer e-transfer or cash. 

You may cancel or reschedule an appointment via Acuity up to 24 hours in advance of your appointment. If you experience unforeseeable circumstances and need to cancel 12 hours or less before your appointment please let me know via email at [email protected] or by phone message 236-600-1505. This way you will not be charged for a late cancelled appointment.

If you do not let me know within 12 hours of the scheduled appointment you will be charged 50% of your appointment. No shows will be charged for the appointment. 

Thank you for understanding. 

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Empowering Quotes

A boundary is the imaginary line that uniquely defines your personal happiness, your personal feelings, your personal thoughts, your personal integrity, your personal desires, your personal needs and therefore most importantly, your personal truth from the rest of the universe.
Teal Swan
Your experiences need to be validated. Validate the self. That's how you tune into your divine self.
Lisa Romano
When the mind and the heart merge together we become discerning, not codependent. We learn to give others what they need, not always what they want.
Matt Kahn
You were set up as a child early on to know that to be loved cared for and respect you have to abandon your own thoughts beliefs about yourself and accept someone else's narrative. You get manipulated in a way to believe something that isn’t true to be true and to act it out and become that person.
Ross Roseburg
I totally believe that everyone who has been narcissistically abused is on the soul journey to come home to their true self.
Melanie Tonia Evans
As an empath, you are part of a counter cultural revolution to put what is humane back in humanity.
Judith Orloff
Traumatic stress is created the moment we say no to the present moment and the flow of life energy is blocked along with important aspects of our awareness.
Fred Gallo

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Welcome to Empathic Heart Healing

Empaths and Highly Sensitive People (HSP’s) have unique ways of experiencing, feeling, sensing, observing, perceiving, processing, and absorbing the world. They feel things deeply; including love, beauty and joy, pain, hurt, and sorrow.

Emotional pain or struggle is a block or disruption in our body’s energy system and can stem from countless places, unique to you and your situation. My passion is to assist Empaths and HSP’s in understanding, accessing and releasing the root cause (feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions) of the energy block(s) or disturbances. Codependency is just one manifestation of emotional pain, an example of how our TRUE selves can get buried, hidden (at the beginning of our lives), and stay this way until it is safe to re-emerge.

Other avenues might be narcissistic abuse, heartache/heartbreak, infertility, low self-esteem, rejection (initially from others- and then towards ourselves), neglect, and you can insert your experience(s) here. When we are in emotional pain, there are corresponding feelings such as shame, sadness, grief, guilt, fear, loneliness, anger, isolation, and despair, to name a few. Our body gives us clues through feelings and sensations about what is happening within us and how we feel around others and in certain environments.

Emotional Freedom Techniques, also called EFT, or “Tapping” can assist us in identifying, releasing, clearing, and healing the energetic and emotional blocks, beliefs, fears, and barriers that limit us and keep us stuck, small, and hidden, so that we can access and get re-in touch with our deepest, fullest, truest and most authentic expression- as well as deep inner peace, vibrant health, light-heartedness, joy, play, passion, bliss and vitality.

Every one of us has a unique energy/energy vibration, traits, purpose(s), gifts, talents, abilities, etc. to offer, to offer others, and contribute to the world. We all have unique goals, dreams and desires.  Blocks in our energy system can derail or make difficult, any one of these. My deepest and truest desires for EVERYONE is to live and express themselves in the deepest, truest, freest, and most authentic way possible!!

When we are young, we learn by watching, observing, and adapting to our surroundings. We are often told by our parent(s), caregivers, society, etc. who they think we are, who they think we should be, and who they want us to be, do, say, or act like. As we get older, these adaptations and beliefs can become a hindrance. We can be controlled by a belief that was learned and taught, which does not even have its origins in who we are, and how we desire to live.

As an example, I recently explored an old, worn-out belief of mine with an EFT colleague. That is, “I am only worthy, only if I am productive, and that “play” is a waste of time.” Yikes! This is a belief that I learned and took on as “truth” very early on- a learned family pattern. It was impacting me in numerous ways (which were not in line with TRUE me). This is certainly not a belief that I want to pass on to my son! I LOVE the magic and power of EFT! and Pranic Healing!! My goal is to provide a safe, compassionate, secure, and non-judgemental space for you to peel back the layers of what no longer serves you and holds you back from TRUE you….

This quote from Judith Orloff, the author of “The Empath’s Survival Guide” sums this up perfectly and resonates with me deeply:

“I’ve seen how empaths are often “chosen” to break the generational patterns of negativity in their families. They don’t necessarily volunteer for this role on a conscious level, but it’s nonetheless their destiny to fulfil it. When empaths heal themselves and say “yes” to honouring their sensitivities, they are saying “NO” to patterns of abuse, neglect, and addiction that have been repeated in their relatives. The intergenerational transmission of pain stops with them. Through their recovery and the acceptance of their gifts, empaths are the ones who can repair the greater familial whole. Mindful, conscious people are the most effective agents of change.”

Warmly,

Tamara

If you are familiar with EFT or would like to explore more about EFT, and how it can be used for Codependency, please email me, and I will send you a copy of “Codependent Beliefs, Thoughts, Feelings, and Emotions to Tap on.”

References:

  • Orloff, Judith. The Empath’s Survival Guide (pp. 207-208). Sounds True. Kindle Edition.  

Areas of Interest, Services and Goals

Areas of Interest:

I am passionate about assisting Empaths and Highly Sensitive  People in the areas of our lives that hold us back from our TRUE selves, passions and calling(s). My goal is to:

  • Assist in removing, eliminating and clearing the energetic blocks, hurt, pain and fear that keep us from our true selves, and our hopes, goals, dreams and desires.
  • Assist others with emotional pain; including  Narcissistic Abuse, and with their unique challenges and struggles.
  • Assist others in exploring, eliminating, and dismantling old limiting patterns and belief systems that keep us stuck, hidden and in pain (e.g. beliefs that we took on or were taught about ourselves as children).
  • Assist others in recognizing, identifying and healing Codependent belief systems and the multitude of ways that Codependency affects us, impacts us, impedes us, and holds us back, e.g. keeping us small, hidden and invisible.
  • Offer energetic and educational support for Empaths and Highly Sensitive People.

Under “About”, see Internal Inquiry Questions, such as, “What is getting in the way of your truest and deepest expression?”, and an Internal Inquiry Questions about Codependency. 

The Ultimate Goal

Living a life that is in line with TRUE us.

Being whole, happy, energetic, vibrant, and free.

Achieving and perusing our true and deepest desires (despite what anyone thinks).

Reconnecting with our TRUE self and locating our TRUE- est and DEEPEST calling.

Celebrating Empathy and the gifts of High Sensitivity.  

Developing kindness, gentleness and compassion towards ourselves.

**This is a process. We can take daily steps toward achieving these goals.

My Services

I offer support for those that desire to explore their inner world to excavate their TRUE self and their deepest and truest goals, passions and desires; for those that desire to go on an emotional wellness scavenger hunt, to clean the old clutter and find the true gem that is YOU.

Pranic Psychotherapy is Pranic Healing applied in energetically preventing and treating Psychological ailments, where stress is at the root. This is where I like to focus on. Pranic Healing works with the chakra system and the auric layers.

Emotional Freedom Techniques works with the meridian system to clear energetic blocks or disruptions that get in the way of our health (physical and emotional). It is one of the MOST powerful somatic (body) release techniques.

Emotional Freedom Techniques and Pranic Healing both assist in regulating our Nervous System. 

Codependent Free

A brief summary of Codependency (more in “Education")

Codependency is created by our attachment trauma. During the first 3 years of life, we need to feel safe and secure with our parents or caregivers. Arielle Swartz says, “this allows us to develop a healthy sense of self that forms the foundation for our ability to develop meaningful, healthy relationships with others.” If we experience fear, unpredictability, uncertainty, neglect, rage, indifference, abuse, emotional unavailability, etc., the natural attachment process is disrupted, causing trauma, resulting in deep and lasting challenges for those that have experienced it (until it’s dealt with).

Jason Breyer describes Codependency as “a psychological and behavioural condition based on faulty programming and emotional wounds, which affects someone’s capacity to have healthy, mutually satisfying relationships.” Stacy Hoch describes Codependency as an image disorder built on the idea and belief that you should be more concerned with what others think of you than what you think of you, the idea that I do not exist without others’ validation and trying to fill inner voids vicariously by filling others. She says, for others’ sake, the Codependent harms themselves and Narcissist for the sake of themselves harm other people. If left unchecked, the pattern of Codependency may be passed from one generation to the next. See “What is Codependency?”, and “Healing and Understanding Codependency.”

Codependency Programming (but not limited to):

Codependency programming ensures that our identity, love, validation, approval, peace, and sense of safety is solely reliant on others. We falsely believe that other people and situations are responsible for our happiness or lack thereof. We completely abandon ourselves and our wounded and deeply afraid inner child(ren) for the sake of others. This can feel like an emotional, psychological, and physical prison that may come to feel like this is how things will always be, that it’s somehow our fate. In summary, its:  

-An external dependency on others for acceptance, validation, approval, and to feel good about ourselves. 

-Not having your own solid identity, becoming void of ourselves for the sake of someone else.

How it may show itself- coping mechanisms

-We seek permission from others. 

-Our self-esteem is validated by what we do and by others’ opinions of us. 

-We can struggle to meet our own needs. 

-Asserting oneself is almost impossible.

-We create behaviours that assist in denying, ignoring or preventing difficult emotions. 

-Can be very self-destructive and self-sabotaging as being self-abusive is what we were taught. 

-Codependents often isolate themselves- deep core shame and loneliness is at the heart of this.

Healing

There are many wonderful ways, tools, techniques, books, online videos, classes, therapies, therapists, modalities, support groups, etc. available to assist us in learning and understanding Codependency and to help heal its deep and many layers! The energetic hold of Codependency programming is strong. To heal, attachment trauma needs to be addressed and inner child work (I encourage you to seek out those that specialize in these areas for support) and identify deep unconscious programming, beliefs, behaviours, and thoughts. I believe that this is the level that Energy Psychology (Emotional Freedom Techniques) really shines! I am extremely passionate about assisting others in addressing the deep energetic layers of Codependency.

If you are interested in a list of, “Codependent Thoughts and Beliefs to Tap On” (Emotional Freedom Techniques can be also referred to as “Tapping”) please email me and I will send that to you.

If  you are interested in more about Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse see “What is Narcissism?, “How to Understand and Identify Narcissistic Abuse”, and “Healing from Narcissistic Abuse.“

**My writing is geared towards Empaths and Highly Sensitive People, but it is ultimately for anyone desiring to learn, grow, heal and explore

References:

  • BREYER, JASON. Empath – A Highly Sensitive Person – Develop your gift, use emotional intelligence to turn your high sensitivity into a superpower: Overcome negative mindsets and master your social skills . Kindle Edition.
  • Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT, Ross. The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap . Morgan James Publishing. Kindle Edition. 
  • Schwartz, Arielle Dr. Complex PTSD and Attachment Trauma (article). Oct 2019. 

Tamara's Biography

It has not been an easy, direct, path to locate my true direction and passion (as I am sure that many of you can relate to!). This is how I got to this place….

I have always been fascinated by people and the reasons why we do the things that we do. I love hearing and learning about people’s stories; their journeys, challenges and triumphs along the way. I truly celebrate the strength and resiliency of the human spirit!!

After high school, I started taking Psychology classes and Outdoor Pursuits in University (1992) and loved it. I did not have the confidence and belief in myself at that time, to lead people on outdoor trips and adventures, so it stayed a personal love. When the 2-year Outdoor Pursuits program was over, I moved back to Calgary and completed a Massage Therapy Certification Program at Mount Royal College. At the same time, I took Craniosacral, Sports Massage training, and explored many Energy Healing Modalities. A budding interest in Spirituality began to emerge, so I decided to finish my Eastern Religions and Psychology degree. When trying to figure out my next steps, a different, unrelated opportunity presented itself. 

I have always deeply loved animals (and the planet), so in 2000, I created a Health Food Store for Pets. After 20 years in this business, and much learning and personal growth, I felt the deep calling to go back to my Energy Healing roots. That brings us to today. 

In 2011, I began using Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT or “Tapping:) on myself. Over the years, the results were so remarkable that I decided that I wanted to work with others, so I completed the EFT International accreditation program. EFT hits me in a passion place that I have not experienced before. I LOVE it to my core!! I am amazed by its power and healing abilities each and every day!! I have since taken more training on understanding the physiology of trauma and how it impacts us on SO many levels.

In 2016, I was introduced to Pranic Healing. This was also an absolute life changer – in a different way!! I completed the associates training in 2018. Emotional Freedom Techniques (under an umbrella called Energy Psychology) and Pranic Healing combine my love of energy work and psychology. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t use both. They assist in navigating through difficult struggles, situations, pain, fears, blocks, inner turmoil, etc. When we heal on these deep energy levels, it is possible to get acquainted with our TRUE, authentic selves and live our lives in alignment with our true selves!!

Healing trauma is a particular interest of mine. I have since completed Level 1 and Level 2 of Tapping Out of Trauma and Level 3 EFT. 

It is my passion to assist others in this way, and it is my honour to be alongside you on your healing journey so that you may be then able to share your beautiful gifts, strength, power, wholeness and voice with the world!! 

Warmly,

Tamara Low

EFT Practitioner and Pranic Healer

What to expect during an EFT appointment

Welcome,

I look forward to working with you! Before the session, please have a glass of water handy and minimize as many distractions as possible, including turning off your cell phone.

At the beginning of an EFT session, we narrow in on what your main focus, goal, or objective will be. This could be addressing a difficult or painful situation, a difficult feeling, a sensation or pain in the body, a disturbing memory, emotions such as anger, fear, grief, shame and guilt, a phobia, a block, or limiting beliefs, habits, or behaviours that you would like to transform. 

Once your focus or goal is in mind, we begin the EFT session with “the setup.” I will be asking you gentle questions throughout, and we will use your responses and words as part of the process. I will ask you to repeat your words after me, as we tap on the body’s acupoints together (see the attached photo).

Tapping on these points sends electromagnetic signals to the brain and the body’s emotional and stress centres to reduce its activity, arousal, and cortisol levels. This helps us feel calmer and address the energy imbalance and disruption associated with your focus or objective, which can positively influence your health, emotions, and state of mind.

EFT is gentle and safe. We go at your own pace. If there is something too difficult to speak about, there are indirect approaches that can be used.

Some of the signs that EFT is working and creating some changes in the body might include (but are not limited to): yawning, sighing, burping, tingling, feeling of energy moving in the body, e.g. down arms of legs, and you might feel peaceful and relieved, after a session, and/or a bit tired. It is important to be gentle with yourself as your body adjusts to the new energy.

Warmly, Tamara

“When we experience a psychological problem, such as trauma, we also have an energy imbalance or disruption in our body’s energy system. This may show up in various systems in your body, including the nervous system, glandular system, meridian system” (Fred Gallo) and the chakra system. EFT assists us in healing the energy imbalance.

References:
Gallo, Fred. Energy Tapping for Trauma (p. 54). New Harbinger Publications. Kindle Edition.

What to expect during a PH appointment

Pranic Healing utilizes prana or ki or life energy to heal the whole physical body.

Human Beings have a physical body and an energy body. In Pranic Healing, we are working with the energy body to clean and energize, bringing health, balance and healing to the physical body. It is non-touch and painless. It is based on Chinese medicine and can be compared to acupuncture without the needles. 

Pranic Healing can be done in-person or from a distance. A pranic healer scans your chakras and can gather information about whether the chakra is in balance or if there is congestion and depletion. The chakras correspond with the functioning of certain organs and glands.

According to Fred Gallo, when we experience a psychological problem, such as trauma, we also have an energy imbalance or disruption in our body’s energy system. This may show up in various systems in your body, including the nervous system, glandular system, and meridian system, the chakra system.

Pranic psychotherapy is pranic healing applied in preventing and treating psychological ailments. Stress is at the root. This is where I like to focus on. Pranic Healing (and EFT) can shift, clear and heal energy blocks which can influence your health, emotions and state of mind.

For the initial session, if I am working on you from a distance, we will talk on the phone or Zoom for about 10 min, then I will get started. In a follow-up, we can talk for a few min, or you can email me how you are doing, and I will get started.

I look forward to working with you!

Tamara

References:

  • Sui, Master Choa Kok. The Origin of Modern Pranic Healing and Arhatic Yoga. Institute for Inner Studies and Publishing Foundation, Inc. Kindle Edition. 
  • Pranic Psychotherapy 
  • Kathrine, Diane. How to Heal Leaky Aura Syndrome. 2017
  • When anger is an ally, it acts as a guardian of our energy field. Just as fear is a way for the Universe to prepare us for impending moments of unravelling, anger acts as the protector of our innocent nature. Khan, Matt. Everything Is Here to Help You (p. 36). Hay House. Kindle Edition

Internal Exploration Questions
General

These questions are just for you to ponder. You can fill it out and save it for your interest if you like. They can help us to get to the root of what is keeping us from TRUE us and our most authentic expression (which can often get buried for many reasons).

Click one of the buttons below and download your fillable PDF to your desktop. You can then fill in the form on your desktop and save it or print it out. If you experience any issues while filling in your form download Abode Acrobat Reader. It is a free software to help you properly use fillable PDF forms.

Internal Exploration Questions

Internal Exploration Questions
Codependency

These questions are just for you to ponder. You can fill it out and save it for your interest if you like. They can help us to get to the root of what is keeping us from TRUE us and our most authentic expression (which can often get buried for many reasons).

Click the button below and download your fillable PDF to your desktop. You can then fill in the form on your desktop and save it or print it out. If you experience any issues while filling in your form, download Abode Acrobat Reader. It is a free software to help you properly use fillable PDF forms.

Codependency Questionnaire

Price List

EFT/Energy Psychology

You can choose either in-person, or video chat (Zoom/Skype) when booking your online appointment.

Pranic Healing (PH)

You can choose either in-person, or from a distance when booking your online appointment.

 

*All prices are in Canadian dollars

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